I don’t know how to act around girls at martial arts. I don’t know how to act around guys at nail salons. This is a case when knowing transsexuals actually makes these issues simpler – the gender thing is almost irrelvant and I don’t feel the need to be a girl/tomboy type. I’d blogged about what separates genders and the only thing random people came up with is : the difference is what society sees you as.